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Marvin Claybourn posted a condolence
Friday, July 19, 2024
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Rubec and Cindy,
You and your family have my deepest condolences. It's been quite a few years since I've seen Tom (always Tommy to me) - not since we were kids. I looked up to Tommy and still think of and value the time we played together when we were young.
Marvin Claybourn
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Michael O'Connor posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 9, 2024
Patricia and Tom, David, Cynthia, Evan and Chloe: you will not know me, but I had the good fortune to work with Tom for many years at MITI and xwave. Tom was a colleague, who on a large team, I came to rely on as a confidant, someone who was always willing to call-out the "white elephant" in the room ...sometimes I think he enjoyed that role :-) ..., and someone I could trust. But, most of all, he'd make me laugh and see the big picture in some very difficult times and challenging situations... and we had some great laughs. Tom was an absolute cornerstone of some really important work, and for many years, he quietly held, without any glamour, critical government systems that our economy depended on. As I look back at that time, I realize how young I was and how important Tom was to me and the big picture of our work. He took on a lot of responsibility, maybe too much at times, and he always, without fail, delivered what was promised. And then I think I really knew him ... self taught tech nerd and all, and I see him on an excavator! Digging and replacing drain tile of his house! There was no end to what he was able to do, and tech others. I reflect now, and I also see Tom was so much more. I remember running into Tom after we changed jobs, and he would tell me about Chloe and Evan. He was so incredibly proud of his children, I thought his head would burst. I now see Tom was a son, brother, and father, as you see him. He had some faults, as do I. But I choose to remember all the good things, good times, laughs at the crazy reality we worked through back then. I wish I could have one more of those times with him. Just one more. In memory of Tom, I try to be a better teammate every day, make someone's day a little brighter when I can, and ensure everyone is feeling good and valued at the end of the work day, in the hopes they carry that good feeling to their families. I hope you all find some peace in your memories of Tom, and that you get through this time.
With my sincere gratitude of having known Tom, and sadness and sympathies for his loss,
Michael O'Connor.
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Tim Davidson posted a condolence
Monday, July 8, 2024
Sorry for your lost, very sad to hear of Tom's passing, he was a good friend.
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Charlotte Carr posted a condolence
Monday, July 8, 2024
Please accept my condolences during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Charlotte Carr
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Andrew Carr posted a condolence
Monday, July 8, 2024
I am very sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. My heart goes out to you Tom, Pat, Dave, Cindy and Tom's children. Please accept our condolences at this difficult time.
Lots of love,
Andrew, Heidi, Grayson and Scarlett Carr ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Verna Mccloskey lit a candle
Monday, July 8, 2024
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Dear Tom ,Pat and families….My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you move through this very difficult time.May precious memories bring you comfort and peace…Rest easy Tom ..
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Michel Vautier posted a condolence
Monday, July 8, 2024
We are thinking of you during this difficult time.Our deepest sympathies to Tom and the family.Michel and Doris Vautier.
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Clair Ripley posted a condolence
Saturday, July 6, 2024
Fred and family,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Clair
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Michael Waugh posted a condolence
Friday, July 5, 2024
Another part of our high school crew gone too soon.
I'm so glad we got to meet up again last year and also play a few games of chess. One never knows.
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Kirk and Dorothy Worden posted a condolence
Friday, July 5, 2024
With deepest sympathy our thoughts and prayers are with Tom , Pat and family.
Kirk and Dorothy Worden
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Carolyn Milheron posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, July 5, 2024
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Cindy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your brother. Keeping you in my prayers in this difficult time. Hugs and Love.
Your friend,
Carolyn Milheron
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Sanchez Family purchased flowers
Friday, July 5, 2024
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Santiago Sanchez uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, July 4, 2024
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I first met Tom at Chloe’s 22nd birthday party, where he greeted me with such warmth and openness that I felt instantly welcomed to their family. A memory I will never forget from that day is him taking some cute pictures with Chloe, while dozing off mid-pose! It was clear he was a master of multitasking—napping, posing, and welcoming new faces all at once. Tom's kindness, humor, and those adorable photo moments are memories I will always cherish. His legacy of love and laughter will forever remain in my heart.
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Chloe Rubec uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, July 4, 2024
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My 22nd birthday. Dad sang me happy birthday with my family and gave me some gifts. He was happy.
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Thursday, July 4, 2024
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